What Is a Pre-Marital Investigation?

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A pre-marital investigation is a professional background and lifestyle verification conducted before marriage or engagement. Individuals often request this service to confirm a partner’s identity, financial stability, legal history, reputation, and honesty. In today’s digital world, information can be easily hidden, misrepresented, or fabricated. A licensed private investigator provides verified, lawful, and objective findings so you can make informed life decisions with confidence.

Pre-marital investigations are not about suspicion—they are about clarity, protection, and transparency before entering a legally binding relationship.

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Why People Request Pre-Marital Investigations

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Reputable research highlights why due diligence before marriage matters. These realities make verification—not assumptions—essential before marriage.

• Studies from the National Center for Family & Marriage Research show financial conflict is one of the strongest predictors of divorce.

• The American Psychological Association reports that lack of trust is a leading contributor to marital breakdown.

• National surveys (such as the General Social Survey) consistently find measurable rates of undisclosed infidelity and hidden financial activity in relationships.

 

 

What’s included in a Pre-Marital Investigation

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• Asset Search – are there properties or possession the person has that they have not shared with you?

• Financial History – Has the person claimed bankruptcy or have multiple financial judgements against them?

• Criminal History or Dishonorable Military Discharge – Has the person ever served time in a prison or been removed from the military for dishonorable acts?

• Family History – Are there family beliefs or traditions which could conflict with your current social norms?

• Infidelity Surveillance – Does the person disappear for hours at the time and have no reasonable excuse as to their whereabouts?

• Social Media – Do they have more that one social media account with content which is unfavorable for a future mate or parent?

• Prior Marriage History – Multiple divorces is a sign of instability in long term relationships.

• Concealed Children From Previous Relationships – Is there an unknown child that could cause future financial obligation to be imposed by a court or cause difficulties with the new marriage?

• Pre-existing Medical Or Mental Health Conditions – Has the person been involuntarily committed due to a mental health issue or a medical problem which may limit their ability to work or perform certain activities?

• Unstable Employment History – Has the person moved from job to job which will lead to an unreliable financial history or credit worthiness?

• Alcohol Or Drug Abuse History – Does the person have a previous addiction which could resurface and cause problems in the future?

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How Investigate NC Helps Individuals and Families

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We help clients throughout Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Research Triangle Park (RTP), Wake County, Durham County, Johnston County, Wilson County, Orange County, Cumberland County, and surrounding areas make informed personal decisions before marriage. Investing in professional verification now can prevent emotional and financial loss later.

 

Our investigators gather verified facts—not rumors—so you can:

• Avoid hidden legal or financial liabilities

• Confirm honesty and transparency

• Protect personal assets and future family stability

• Enter marriage with confidence and peace of mind

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Being Cautions Is Not A Sin

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But I’m in love, I’m supposed to trust my partner. If I order this investigation, doesn’t that means I’m a bad person? That I don’t trust them? What will a Pre-Marital Investigation do for me?

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Getting a Pre-marital Investigation performed doesn’t mean you're having cold feet about your upcoming big day and it doesn’t mean you don’t trust them!  In today’s world it’s a necessary step to ensure you're making a solid, safe decision and you’re ensuring you are partnering with a safe, reliable person. Its better to discover any red flags before you say “I Do” and tie the knot. Having a Pre-Marital Investigation performed can assist in the following:

 

• To Ensure Compatibility - determine if you and your partner are compatible in terms of values, beliefs, and lifestyle.

• To Identify Red Flags – Information you receive can give you things to think about as you move forward in your life planning.

• Peace Of Mind – When you see your loved one walking down the aisle you will have peace of mind knowing you’ve done your due diligence in selecting the perfect partner.

• Protection – You're not only protecting yourself but you're also protecting your current family and future children.

• Informed decision making – A marriage is one of the biggest investment decisions you will ever make in your life. Make this valuable decision with all the information possible.

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Horror stories from victims who did not obtain a Pre-Marital Investigation:

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• https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/apr/10/my-husband-was-unfaithful-and-lied-about-it-for-years

• https://www.btr.org/my-husbands-lying/

• For those who have a few hours to spare, the below YouTube video chronicles in detail the consequences not performing a Pre-Marital Investigation can have on an innocent unsuspecting victim: “Who TF Did I Marry” (video): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7eOzMNNjRRY​

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What Sets Investigate NC Apart

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We treat every case with sensitivity, professionalism, and respect for your privacy. Clients choose Investigate NC because we provide:

• Licensed, experienced North Carolina investigators

• Strict confidentiality and discreet operations

• Evidence-based reporting with documentation

• Customized investigative strategies

• Clear communication and professional guidance

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Why Investing More Upfront Can Save You Thousands

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Marriage is a legal contract that can affect assets, property, and financial obligations. A professional investigation is a proactive investment in your future security. Discovering critical information before marriage can prevent:

• Costly divorce litigation

• Hidden debt liability

• Fraud or misrepresentation

• Financial exploitation

 

Serving Raleigh, Durham & the Research Triangle Region

 

Our local expertise allows us to operate efficiently and discreetly within your community. We proudly serve individuals and families throughout:

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• Raleigh 

• Durham

• Chapel Hill

• Research Triangle Park (RTP)

• Wake County

• Durham County

• Johnston County

• Wilson County

• Orange County

• Cumberland County

• Statewide service available upon request​​​